The Secret of Law of Attraction - How to Have the Positive Vibes

If you have heard about the law of attraction and want to know how to apply it to improve your life, you have come to the right place. In this article, I will share with you what I have learnt about the law of attraction and how to use it.

Firstly, let’s define the word “vibe” because it’s the key to effective use of the law of attraction.

A vibe is defined as a particular kind of feeling or mood. So for example, if you say that you have a good vibe about something, that means you have a good FEELING about it. The key word here is “feeling”.

Now, the law of attraction simply states “like attracts like”. For example, let’s say you’re now overweight and want to have a slim body and you believe that you will FEEL great if you have a slim body. So you start to pay attention and energy to whatever that can get you that slim body you want. Now, provided that you’re taking the right actions, very soon you will see results and have the slim body you want.

So the law of attraction says that you will attract whatever you give your attention and energy to, regardless positive or negative. In other words, if you give attention to positive things, you will attract positive things. If you give attention to negative things, you will attract negative things. Clear?

In order to use the law of attraction effectively, first you need to identify your DESIRE or the things you want to attract. Please note that just having your desire is not enough, you also need to be transmitting positive vibes around you. This is where most people find it difficult.

For example, if you say that “I am a millionaire” or “I have a successful business”, it doesn’t mean that you will be trasmitting positive vibes. Why? Because if you’re not a millionaire or you don’t have a successful business, you don’t FEEL good about saying it because they are not true. If you don’t feel good, you will be sending out a negative vibe.

So how do you ensure that you’re always sending out a positive vibe?

Here is the trick, you need to change each statement so it makes you FEEL that it’s TRUE. For example, instead of saying “I am a millionaire”, say “I am in the process to become a millionaire”. Instead of saying “I have a successful business”, say “I am in the process to have a successful business”.

The key point to remember here is that in order to transmit a positive vibe, you need to say something that you feel good about. In fact, you can always change words that you don’t feel good about into words that you feel good about. That’s the key in using the law of attraction effectively.

How Does The Law of Attraction Work?

The law of attraction is based on the premise that our universe is made up of “energy”. From the study of Quantum Physics, we know that atoms are the building blocks of the universe. And every atom consists of energy that vibrates at a certain frequency.

For example, the difference between an atom of lead and an atom of gold is that the atom of lead has energy that is vibrating at a different frequency to the energy of gold. The reason why the same particles of atoms grow together is because they are vibrating at the same frequency.

In fact, every human being is also vibrating energy at a particular frequency. This includes our thoughts and feelings. So if we want to attract the things we want, we also need to send out the vibration of thoughts at the same frequency as the things we want.

What we think determines what we believe; what we believe influences what we choose; what we choose defines what we are; and what we are attracts what we have. This is the basis of “Like attracts Like” and it is the way the law of attraction works.

So how do you apply the law of attraction? Well, the best place to start is with your current thinking process. Remember, everything starts from your thought. So the simplest way to attract what you want is to hold a mental picture of what you desire as long as possible and as often as possible.

In summary, your thoughts are vibrating energy (whether postitive or negative); you can atract anything you want by focusing your thoughts on the very thing you want. Everything else will be taken care of by the law of attraction. Remember, you are what you think you are and what you are attracts what you have.

Anger Management

They say the men are much impulsive and that they measure their masculinity through the showcase of their strength. They also claim that men are difficult to deal with when they are angered by something or someone.

And as a general thought, it is said that the men should not really be angered as they are capable of physically hurting the opponent. The same scenario is often shown as true by several action movies that Hollywood films produce.

Men who are usually afflicted with pain take vengeful moves and they manifest it through physically hurting the other. Now these are action-packed-movies which can be true in real life, so to speak.

Is it really difficult for men to handle their anger? Can they not put their whole control over the matter instead of going square with each other? Psychotherapists are expert in counseling people to brace themselves with some anger management practices.

More so, psychotherapists believe that anger management is indeed a skill. This skill can therefore be practiced and honed through proper education. Most of the times, their patients are the men who have gotten involved into serious troubles because of anger. These men are often surprised to know that they can nonetheless learn the art of anger management.

Yes, just like any skill, anger management can be learned. It is just like learning how to ride the bicycle or how to go about with the driving procedures. In a driving lesson for instance, you must yield to the other vehicle drivers, shift into another gear when the engine tends to find the road difficult to ride, you need to step on the accelerator in order to push some power into the engine, and to step on the breaks in cases of possible collision with another car. More practice makes your driving perfect. And when you've gained mastery about its basics, you can already manage to drive on whatever kind of terrain there is before you.

Now what is the connection of such in anger management for men? Meaning, men's anger management is just the same as driving a car. One needs to hold on, let go, plan every action to be taken and every word to be said, deal with life's challenges but containing enough self-discipline, and finally, to step on the brakes when needed most so as to avoid hurting the other person.

There are varied reasons as to why anger in men is stirred. At times the anger can be very big or very small. Whatever the size of the anger and the reason for it, self-discipline is always vital. You may need to ponder first on the rationale of the matter and then to catch your breath before you can do a lot of damage to the other party.

As it goes normally, anger blinds men most particularly when it is their pride which goes at stake or which has been attacked by their opponents. But then with enough knowledge in anger management, such skill will further be proficient when there is enough practice.

It always pays off to gain counseling from the most trustworthy people. They do charge a service fee but one can always go to those who are affordable but can give out the best services. Anger management in men can be a skill that goes on effectively and flawless given the proper training.